
[art of the movie!verse X-Men from X-Men: Apocalypse.
Cyclops, Jean Grey, Storm, Quicksilver, Nightcrawler, and Jubilee are all posing together dramatically in costume.]

[art of the movie!verse X-Men from X-Men: Apocalypse.
Cyclops, Jean Grey, Storm, Quicksilver, Nightcrawler, and Jubilee are all posing together dramatically in costume.]
I meant to answer this sooner but I didn’t SORRY
anyway i was diagnosed when i was 19 because a friend i had a lot in common with got diagnosed because her friend got diagnosed etc etc etc anyway it turned out a lot of the things we had in common were actually symptoms
when i was a kid my dad had a rule that my bedroom door couldn’t be locked at night in case of emergencies (like a fire) so usually i’d lie down and then realize i didn’t know if my door was locked so i’d get up to check and then go back to bed and then realize that i hadn’t actually unlocked it and couldn’t remember if that was because it was already unlocked so i’d get back up and check again
one time i got up to go to the bathroom, then realized in the kitchen that i was hungry so i made a sandwich and brought it back to my desk where i had a half-eaten bowl of cereal i’d been working on before i’d gotten up
once i was reading something and went to turn on music only to realize that i’d been listening to a podcast and hadn’t realized it because i’d gotten distracted reading (now i’m always careful to cross-stitch or play puzzle games or grind in rpgs when i listen to podcasts or audiobooks, so that i don’t forget that i’m doing something)
sometimes i walk into the kitchen and forget what i was doing so i turn around to go back upstairs but then i think i remembered so i turn back around but then realize that wasn’t it so i turn back around and i’m just spinning around in the kitchen for no apparent reason
when something tastes good i eat it until i feel sick and then keep eating it and sometimes i eat vinegary foods until i have chemical burns inside my mouth
i put off reading books i know i’ll like because i know when i start i’ll read it until i’m done and then find another book and read that and then find another book and i’ll read three books a day until something forces me to stop and i won’t do anything else
i have that problem with anything i enjoy, really. videogames especially.
i decided to get diagnosed because i realized it wasn’t normal that sometimes i couldn’t process language, i had a project i wanted to work on but it wasn’t due for a month and i kept reading and rereading the prompt but i couldn’t for the life of me figure out what i was supposed to do.
sometimes i can memorize things for short periods through sheer brute force but usually i can’t. i failed chemistry three different times before i gave up. maybe things would have been different if i’d asked disability services to let me have notes but i kept forgetting to go down there and ask and then it was just easier to drop the class for no credit.
it’s just inertia mostly. it’s hard to start doing things and it’s hard to stop doing things once i’ve started and it’s hard to start back up once i’ve stopped.
ADD stories!
My mama once asked me to take a bag of carrots downstairs. Half way down I realized I couldn’t remember if she said to put them in the freezer, or the fridge.
I agonized for several minutes. Finally I decided the freezer sounded most familiar, so I’d put them in there and make sure it was okay when I got back upstairs.
Once upstairs, I tried to think of there was anything else I needed to do, shrugged, and went on with my day.
My mama found the frozen carrots several days later and was bewildered. Did I have NO common sense? (I don’t.) she had to juice them all.
There’s research that says that our brain has something similar to ram that holds short term memories. When we move from space to space, our brain needs to free up room for information about the new space. It often sends the other space’s memories back into storage. That’s why people will forget what they went to the kitchen for, but remember after they go back to the living room. Their brain’s decided that that is a ‘living room memory.’
ADHD brains seem to be slightly too enthusiastic about this process.
Resurrecting my Zero Comment Challenge – to find fics out on Archive of Our Own that have no comments, but deserve a little love. I’m aiming for a couple of searches a week, but life may have other ideas.
If you want to join me – go over to Ao3′s Search Works page – plug in your preferred fandom, character(s), rating and/or pairing, then scroll down to the Work Stats section of the page and type a “0″ in the Comments field – easy peasy!
Once you find a fic that sounds interesting, read it and COMMENT. I know, I know, that’s the hard part! But honestly, even a quick “this was fun!” or “I like your take on <CHARACTER>” or “Great interaction between X and Y” can be enough to make someone’s day.
I’m going to reblog this each time I find a fic that fits the bill – like this one:
Redemption_Arc. A young Clint Barton is caught at a crossroads in his life, with assistance coming from an unlikely source.
I think there’s maybe supposed to be more coming, but it’s currently listed as a single chapter? (I’ve made that mistake myself)This is an astoundingly awesome idea and I’m mad I didn’t come up with it. 😀 I think more people should take up the challenge especially if you’re finding that your regular reading has stagnated lately or if you want to train yourself to comment more.
AO3′s search function is pretty powerful so you can also do cool stuff like sorting by hits, meaning you could get a story with a ton of hits and no comments, which I know is especially dispiriting to some people, or sort by date-ascending so you get the oldest stories with no comments, which is what I did.
This led me to locate a JARVIS/Ziggy (MCU/Quantum Leap) crossover and what a fantastic ship.
Research has shown that Hand Talk is still being used by a small number of deaf and hearing descendants of the Plains Indian cultures.
“Hand Talk is endangered and dying quickly,” said Melanie McKay-Cody, who identifies herself as Cherokee Deaf and is an expert in anthropological linguistics.
McKay-Cody is the first deaf researcher to specialize in North American Hand Talk and today works with tribes to help them preserve their signed languages. She is pushing for PISL to be incorporated into mainstream education of the deaf.
Native American Hand Talkers Fight to Keep Sign Language Alive

Look at his face, man.
He is so disappointed in you.
“WHY DID YOU NOT PATENT THIS”
Image shows Superman, holding a helmeted man in the air. Superman, does, in fact, look incredibly disappointed. Text:
Superman: I’m sorry – you built this in your garage?
Man: I mean – yeah I – the guys at the lab all said I was crazy, they –
Superman: You built a jet pack in you garage and your first thought was, “I should use this to commit a crime?”
Man: … well, when you put it that way …
End ID.]
If you are planning on reading or gifting “To Siri With Love” by Judith Newman, please be aware that the autistic community has called for a boycott.
The book is a grotesque invasion of the 13-year old son’s privacy including her cruel observations that imagining him having sex is accompanied by the Benny Hill soundtrack in her head. She plans to acquire power of attorney to have him forcibly sterilized when he is 18 without his consent.Books having a long shelf life, this tell-all laughing at his struggles with social communication, motor apraxia, etc. may make her a lot of money and has gotten her on the NYT book list, however that book is going to follow him for the rest of his life. It is child abuse in printed format.
FUCK.
I went to find more information about this book, read an excerpt, started crying, and now am FURIOUS.
HOW DARE SHE.
My son talks to Siri too. It’s wonderful and heartwarming to listen to. HOW DARE SHE POISON THAT FOR ME with her selfish, cruel remarks. How dare she pawn her child off to a computer so she doesn’t have to interact with him, and then mock him for bonding with the device?! How dare she watch her child practice social interaction in a safe situation and then look down on him for it? How dare she publish all these insults to her son and make money off them?!
There’s probably a lot of good in this book. Good writing, good facts. But the tone is wrong. This woman doesn’t respect her son enough.
Quotes (I’m quoting almost half the section I was able to read. Sorry.):
Gus has autism, and Siri, Apple’s “intelligent personal assistant” on the iPhone, is currently his BFF. Obsessed with weather formations, Gus had spent the hour parsing the difference between isolated and scattered thunderstorms — an hour in which, thank God, I didn’t have to discuss them.
and
That Siri. She doesn’t let my communications-impaired son get away with anything.
and
…he was hooked. And I was grateful. Now, when my head was about to explode if I had to have another conversation about the chance of tornadoes in Kansas City, Mo., I could reply brightly: “Hey! Why don’t you ask Siri?”
and
It’s not that Gus doesn’t understand Siri’s not human. He does — intellectually. But like many autistic people I know, Gus feels that inanimate objects, while maybe not possessing souls, are worthy of our consideration.
and
Gus speaks as if he has marbles in his mouth, but if he wants to get the right response from Siri, he must enunciate clearly.
and
My son’s practice conversation with Siri is translating into more facility with actual humans. Yesterday I had the longest conversation with him that I’ve ever had. Admittedly, it was about different species of turtles and whether I preferred the red-eared slider to the diamond-backed terrapin. This might not have been my choice of topic, but it was back and forth, and it followed a logical trajectory.
They might not sound so bad, at first glance. Everyone needs breaks from their kids, sometimes. And not everyone thinks turtles are as cool as I, and apparently Gus, does. But look at her wording.
She calls Gus ‘obsessed’, ‘communications-impaired’, and says he ‘speaks as if he has marbles in his mouth’.
Every time she mentions talking with him, she also makes clear she doesn’t enjoy it. ‘Admittedly’ it ‘might not have been [her] choice of conversation’ – why is she focusing on that, instead of the fact that her son is able to converse with her better?
There were such cute stories in this section! He brought his iphone to the Apple store so it could visit it’s friends! Why is that used to other him – to show Autistic people relate to technology ‘too strongly’ – instead of being a way to show how caring and thoughtful he was? Why is complimenting Siri, and saying goodnight, used as an example of being ‘communications-impaired’?
This is painful and hurtful to read. Gus is othered and insulted throughout. Please consider joining the boycott.
For the “alien abduction” square on my hurt/comfort bingo card. Thanks to the anon who suggested Damian getting abducted after a fight with his father and Tim coming to his rescue.
Summary: He thinks it’s probably too much to hope that he’ll wake back up in his bed and this will have all been nothing but a strange dream.
Damian has been hit with fear gas enough times to know he’s not completely fearless, but he’s proud to say there is a very short list of things that scare him. Waking up dizzy and disorientated, surrounded by bright lights? Ha, basically a monthly occurrence. Trying to move and finding himself restrained from ankles to head? Pfft, he would expect nothing less from any abductor who recognises the R insignia. The creepy, inhuman faces that drift in and out of his field of vision? Weird, but not the worst he’s ever faced with all the gimmicky villains in Gotham.
Knowing that nobody is coming for him because nobody will realise he’s missing? That sends a small shard of fright through his heart. The restraints are tight, whatever they drugged him with seems to have paralysed his muscles, he has no idea where he is or who has taken him. This is a situation he’s not sure he can get out of on his own.
He still refuses to feel guilty about arguing with his father though. He is fifteen years old – more than old enough to patrol by himself, which makes him more than old enough to decide whether he can take on the more dangerous rogues without help. And Poison Ivy is back in Arkham now so what’s the big deal anyway?
Maybe Pennyworth would say storming off had been childish, but Damian prefers to think of it as a strategic retreat. He hadn’t wanted to fight with his father, he’d just wanted him to listen and understand that Damian can take care of himself.
Father hadn’t listened and he hadn’t stopped him leaving. He’d probably been glad that Damian had. And he definitely doesn’t care enough to consider that, after being gone for hours past sunset without showing up in any of his regular patrol spots, maybe Damian is missing. Even if he did, would he bother coming? Or would he just consider this proof that he’s right and Damian can’t take care of himself?
Damian thinks, with a sinking feeling in his stomach, that the latter is more likely.
The creatures – aliens, although not a species he recognises – are silent as they work. Whatever drug they injected Damian with when they took him has numbed his body and as it wears off sensation filters back in. The sharp sting of needles, the cool touch of metallic tools, strangely rubbery fingers poking and prodding. One ghosts over a scar on his abdomen and Damian flinches.
There’s a sudden, high-pitched sound like a screech and then something is being jabbed in his neck. Calm washes over him. Feeling goes away again. Darknesses creeps into every recess of his mind. Damian doesn’t make a conscious decision to close his eyes, but he must because the bright lights and strange creatures vanish. He thinks it’s probably too much to hope that he’ll wake back up in his bed and this will have all been nothing but a strange dream.
–
Hands tugging at his body drag him back into consciousness. He rolls away from them reflexively (wonders, fleetingly, why he’s able to do so) but they pull him back. “Robin.” A voice joins the hands, coaxing him up off the – table? bed? what exactly is he lying on? did he fall asleep in the Cave again?
“Damian.”
He pries his eyes open. A black domino swims in his vision, pale flesh connecting it to the green fingers gently holding the side of his head. Something like relief flickers across the familiar face when Damian blinks at him. It doesn’t make sense, though, because Damian is sure Red Robin isn’t supposed to be here. Anyone else was supposed to come for him but not… why not him?
“Can you walk?” Drake asks. At twenty-one, he hasn’t grown much taller than he’d been at seventeen and Damian towers several inches over him. Damian is bulkier too, even if not by much, and there’s no way the smaller man is going to be able to carry him out of here. He could drag him, maybe (and, more amicable relationship or not, Damian wouldn’t put it past him) but that’s hardly an efficient way to rescue someone from an alien spaceship. Not that they have to do that often, but rescue missions were covered in detail during Robin training.
His muscles are still largely uncooperative, but Damian manages to pry his jaw open and move his lips and tongue enough to say, “Aliens-”
Drake laughs and Damian’s not sure whether it’s the faint buzzing in his ears or the echo of the room, but it sounds a little hysterical. “I know,” he says. “They’ve been dealt with.”
It’s on the tip of Damian’s tongue to ask if he killed them. He frowns. Where did that thought come from? Todd is the exception to the family’s no killing policy, not Drake.
(But Drake is the one with alien kidnapping issues.)
With Drake’s help, they slide him off the table. But as soon as he’s on his feet, his legs collapse and it’s only quick bat-reflexes that have him smushed against his brother’s chest instead of face planting on the floor. They stand there awkwardly for a second longer than is necessary while Drake gets his hands around Damian and hoists him back onto the table.
“Okay, so that’s a no to the walking then,” Drake mutters. He keeps one hand on Damian’s shoulder (Damian isn’t sure why; he’s not going to fall over) and runs the other through his hair. “That’s fine, the others can help, just a slight change in plans…”
Others? Does that mean-?
“Father?” Damian asks hesitantly. He doesn’t want to be told that Father didn’t come looking for him, that he doesn’t care, but he needs to know.
“At home,” Drake replies after the briefest of hesitations. “I brought other backup.”
But who-? Damian frowns, glancing around the room. Glowing white tiles stretching up to a domed ceiling, but no other vigilantes in sight. Drake gives him a crooked grin, somehow more unsettling than Red Robin’s usual intimidate-the-enemy smirk and says, “When in doubt, fight aliens with aliens.”
It’s like just the thought of blue and red summons them because not even a second after Damian’s sluggish brain has processed what his brother means, there’s a blur of colour and a displacement of air and Superboy stands in front of him. Superboys. Both of them. Or Superboy and whatever the clone is calling himself these days.
“Oh thank god, you’re okay!” Jon exclaims. Thirteen years old and still as gratingly positive about life as he had been at ten.
Damian tuts and says “Of course I’m okay” as if Drake didn’t have to pick him up off the floor a minute ago because his limbs have forgotten how they’re supposed to follow the commands his brain gives.
“You’re going to need to carry him,” Drake is saying to Kon-el.
Damian grimaces and opens his mouth to argue that he does not need to be carried, but Kon is already saying, “What about you? You’re not even supposed to be out in the field yet.”
And Damian remembers. Oh. That’s why he’s not supposed to be here. Red Robin sprained his ankle the other day. Maybe that’s why he didn’t try to drag me out of here.
And then- “What are you doing?” he blurts and two pairs of blue-grey eyes refocus back on him. “You’re hurt, you were benched, you shouldn’t be-“
Drake’s face is stony, all hard lines and tight muscles. “Nobody else was coming,” he says and it’s like he’s making an effort not to sound sympathetic or angry about it. “Apparently UFO abduction is a little too far-fetched even for Batman. Not like he works with aliens every damn day.”
The tiny part of Damian that feels warm and fuzzy at his brother being indignant on his behalf is drowned out by the cold, hollow feeling that sweeps through his chest. “He really wasn’t coming,” he says, voice a hoarse whisper. He’d thought his father wouldn’t realise he was taken, that he wouldn’t come for him, but he hadn’t actually thought–
He’s aware of Kon laying a calming hand on Drake’s shoulder and Jon shifting uncomfortably, but the world is blurring and. He scrubs at his eyes, tells himself he’s not going to cry, it’s just the drug making his eyes water, or something in the air of this stupid alien ship.
“Shit,” Drake mutters. And then he’s shifting his weight forward (wincing, but ignoring the pain from his ankle) and pulling Damian into a hug. “I didn’t mean it like that,” he says. “Just- I heard whispers on patrol, about a UFO, and it was near your last known location. It was stupid but nobody had heard from you in awhile so I thought I’d check and-“ And he’d found him. Because he’d bothered to look into the absurd possibility of alien abduction.
Damian pulls back and Drake lets him. “You shared your suspicions with Father?” he asks, even though he knows already that his father would have dismissed them without a second thought. And then he realises it doesn’t matter whether Father believed the possibility because he’ll be faced with the truth when they get home, and then he’ll know how poorly Damian was able to take care of himself alone in Gotham. “He said I am not good enough to take on the more dangerous rogues by myself. What if he’s right? I could not even stop myself from being abducted by second-rate aliens.”
Drake winces, and this time it has nothing to do with pain. “Look, I know Bruce can be a jackass sometimes-“ Kon snorts; Damian sends him a dirty look. “-but even if he was mad at you before, he’ll be happy you’re home safe, I promise.”
His tone and expression are both sincere. Damian bites his lip, reluctant to find out whether that promise will be broken even though he’d been desperate to go home before. When Jon grabs his arm to help him onto his feet, though, he accepts it. He can’t exactly avoid going home when the only other option is remaining on the UFO he was abducted to.
“If your dad isn’t happy,” the superpowered teen says, more like he’s mulling something over than genuinely considering the possibility of Damian’s father being mad at him for being abducted by aliens. “You can come live with me.”
Damian snorts. “That won’t be necessary. Drake is right,” he says, and he tells himself he does believe it. “Father will be glad that I am home.”
His brother squeezes his shoulder. And then they’re lifted up in a blur of light and colour, the alien ship growing distant, the Manor looming ever closer. Damian closes his eyes and repeats like a mantra he’ll be happy he’ll be happy he’ll be happy.
The stop is sudden, jarring, sending him stumbling forward… straight into a broad chest and large arms which wrap around him instantly. “Damian,” his father murmurs against his hair, barely more than a relieved exhalation.
Damian relaxes into the hug. He’s glad to be home.
Thanks to MJ for donating! Here’s your Bruce and Dick kidnapped content!
A soft call of his name is the first thing that
Dick registers through the haze fogging up his brain. He’s at half-processing
speed right now, and it takes him an uncomfortably long time to even recognize
the voice he should know in his sleep. Not enough Batman, but not enough charm to be Brucie Wayne. So that just leaves plain old—“Bruce?” Dick groans. His head is hanging, and
he doesn’t have enough energy to do anything but roll it sort of in the
direction from where he thinks his name had been called. Maybe. It’s hard to
remember anything. Or move. Or think.“Can you open your eyes for me, chum?”
Dick hums, grimacing when he peels his eyelids
open.The world around him is a hazy, blurry mess.
Too bright, too dark. Too much, but not enough. He doesn’t recognize anything
past fuzzy shapes and dark colors, and the effort of keeping his eyes open
leaves him absolutely drained. They slip closed again, and he lets out a breath
he hadn’t known he was holding.“Dick,” Bruce calls again, more urgent than the
first time.He sounds close. Close enough that he would
have seen Dick’s attempt to do as he asked. Dick wonders if he’s going to be
asked to open his eyes again, and if he’s going to have to keep them open. He
hates to admit it, but he’s too tired. Too exhausted. If Bruce asks, though,
Dick’s going to do it. Whether he wants to or not. It’s been beat into him for
the past seven years.“Dick,” Bruce says. “I need you to look at me.”
And there it is. Dick tries to fight.
“I’m tired,” he croaks, and something bubbles
up in his chest. He doesn’t want to open his eyes. He doesn’t want to look at
Bruce. He wants to sleep. “Bruce, I’m really tired.”
the best version of batman is and always will be “single father of 8”
I went on an adventure to target and I found the fidget spinner Dick would give Damian as a stocking stuffer followed shortly by the fidget spinner Jason would buy himself as a stocking stuffer.
I like the idea that Dick would make one from one of the official blanks they use for Batarangs, before they’re sharpened (I also like to think that Dick fiddled around with real batarangs when he was bored on patrol when he was Robin, as long as it wasn’t something where he had to stay completely still and quiet; and I’m thinking he juggled things when he could get away with it too, LOL)
[Two images: one of a batarang shaped fidget spinner, and one of a traditional 3 pronged fidget spinner with a Wonder Woman logo in the centre.]
Okay, that is a thing that definitely could have happened. I like to imagine they’ve all done this. (Edit: this became a more general Bat-Stimming post. Oops.)
Dick: turning batarangs and wingdings into fidget spinners long before they were actually a thing. Probably he just takes a normal or unsharpened batarang and balances it on his finger to spin, no modifications necessary. Often without noticing. They’re very precisely weighted. But I can see him making a real fidget spinner after they come out – either for himself, for Damian, or to let kids he sees on patrol play with.
Babs: Needs her hands free for typing. Has five sitting in a drawer to give to Misfit when the girl visits. Misfit prefers textural stims, though, so they have a variety of finishes and add-ons.
Jason: Keeps his hands busy so he doesn’t pick at himself. As Robin, he didn’t play with gadgets much. He mostly played with Batman’s cape or touched Batman. Poked him, hid under his cape, grabbed his arm and rubbed it over and over, etc. Batman was endlessly interesting.
Now he absently scratches himself and plays with healing injuries. Guns aren’t balanced for spinning. So he has a Wonder Woman/Girl themed spinner that he likes to hold right in front of his eyes and spin while he thinks.
Tim: Definitely built one precisely from an unused batarang blank. With gyros in the wings as well as the centre. Batman logos worked into the design everywhere. It’s beautiful. He never knows where it is, and ends up worrying his phone case or removing the buttons from his shirts. When he has it, he does enjoy it, though.
Steph: Likes playing with Tim or Dick’s. But only for a few minutes. She chews her lips, hair, or fingers, but otherwise doesn’t stim much. Except tapping/humming along with music. Usually music stuck in her head. It drives Bruce nuts. And then she starts tapping out some Queen song, and he ends up joining in, because she only has two hands, those beats are complex, and you have to do Queen justice!
Cass: Takes a long time to learn to stim. Cain taught stillness. She stims rebelliously, often after noticing someone else is. Folds origami. Tries knitting. Rips paper into tiny, tiny, shreds while glaring at Bruce and/or Alfred.
And then she discovers flapping. Another way to talk! A way to talk EMOTIONS! She wants to try when she’s happy, but it becomes an anger thing. She’s never been able to show anger or emotional hurt except through fighting. Never been able to just express it, with no purpose except venting. So she flaps, and waves, and twirls her arms, and lets herself feel.
Damian: Thinks fidget spinners are childish. But everyone he knows has one. FATHER has one! Uses it when he’s stuck on a case and needs to think. Then someone gets him a fidget dice, and it’s perfect. All the different options! It is perfectly designed to fit any situation, and small enough to use discretely.
Duke: Everyone is weird, and everything is confusing, but he spins the batarang on his finger the first time, to get a feel for it’s balance, and Dick grins. Pulls the fidget spinner out of his pocket and offers it to Duke.
“Sometimes the sharp ones are slightly heavier on the head side. Not enough to destabilize their flight, but they can slide if you’re spinning them. And nobody sympathizes with the cuts you get. Use this until you make your own.“